Undoubtedly, your wedding day will be one of the most important and special days of your life. Thousands of dollars go into creating the perfect day for you and your guests to enjoy, with everything from the cars to the ceremony, to the final bride’s bouquet being finely planned down to the last tiny requirement. However, as much as all of the stunning decoration, fantastic music, and gorgeous dresses can create a day to remember, those extra special occasions are always those that pay attention to the actual loving couple, their family and their friends.

Whilst you may want a huge expensive wedding with every single gorgeous cake, flower and decoration that you can think of, you can still create a special day whatever you’re budget. One of the most important things to remember is that the day is about you and your partner and as such should show your characteristics. Don’t conform to the traditional if you’re not traditional. Your friends and family will always remember your wedding if you play your favorite cartoon theme tune as you leave the church, or if, hidden under your wedding dress, are a pair of walking boots to hint at your love of outdoor activities. The most special of weddings are those that create an emotional link between you and your friends and family, and whilst some of things you do may seem a little odd to outsiders, it is your big day and you should remember that the sky is the limit to your creativity.

Another great way of make your day extra special and create real memories for people is to offer little take home gifts. You can thank your bridesmaids, best man, and flower girls with a few gifts in the speeches, helping to create as great a day for guests as yourself. Meanwhile, if you’re having a sit down meal, switch from paper name places to a quirky name tag that shows your personality. These can be taken home by guests and will always be a memory of the day. And if you’re having a buffet you could give guests a bag for their cake and possible an extra small gift.

One of the best ways to make your day special is to ensure that you have a good photographer. They need to be creative with their shots, carefully recommended so that you won’t be disappointed, and subtle in their approach to the day so that they’re gently taking people away for shots rather than making the photography into a stagnant event. Meanwhile, you can also buy digital cameras which can be provided for guests on their tables, allowing for extra special ‘behind the scene’s’ snaps to be captured. Guests love to get involved in your special day, and you’ll find that many of the snaps caught by your loved ones will become as important as your professional photos.

On your big day, remember that it is about you and your own quirks. Do away with tradition and really make your wedding showcase your personality. And by ensuring your focus is on your love and your loved ones, you will have most special day imagined.